Loosing friends?

 When you are younger you may find yourself with lots of friends, I was never someone that had hundreds of friends I knew lots of people but only held a few people close, either way I would always say “yeah I know so n so she’s my friend” 

As I have gotten older I can honestly say those friends are most definitely gone, even the ones I held close! 

 It’s a sad experience loosing friends especially ones you thought would be life term but sometimes as we grow spiritually we just don’t align any more and the universe works in weird ways to remove people from our paths that just don’t resonate any more.

Sometimes when you start calling those “friends” out on their bull, when you make them accountable for their actions they don’t like the way you become a conscience for them so you hang out less and less and before you know it you haven’t heard or seen them in a while.

Some of my friends were “drinking buddies” and when you wake up, work on yourself stop the drinking those “friends” no longer ask you to go out or meet up for a lunch instead of alcohol isn’t involved I wasn’t invited and that’s absolutely OK because I learnt that those people enjoyed that version of me, they never truly knew who I was or understood me as the person that was a little trapped inside so again we didn’t align anymore, I would always trust in spirit and put my trust into the universe to bring me the right people and remove the ones that no longer need to be on my path and honestly I always find out who is to leave and who is to come in.

It’s hard to become attached to someone though, I always accept that people are to cross paths with myself as I am for other people for numerous reasons, some obvious some not so much, but I trust in the plan.

I’m pretty comfortable, I know the people I have around are the ones that are supposed to be here, there are some people I miss from the past though even now and I have to remind myself that I was a person that sought them at that time as they for me and now we just move differently.

Honestly I had the most friends when I was the worst version of myself, I attracted the people that wanted someone that would just say yes to them, someone that was there to do what they wanted, when I started saying no to them and yes to myself that’s when they started dropping off and they did so quickly, from friends to strangers. 

I’m still grateful though, some of those people still go out doing the same thing with different people whilst I’m over here growing and applying my boundaries and allowing what I want for myself.

Don’t ever feel bad for saying no and don’t stay too upset for too long when you begin loosing those people you say no to, they were never your friends, you were just their yes person, they were an acquaintance. When you release the person you have always been but restricted the right people find you, and when those right people find you believe me when I say “you will just know”

Their energy is different, it’s never can you will you do you have it’s more of I’d love to be in your company any time any where when ever suits us both, these are your people, communication is easy, genuine energy transfer of well wishing and only hoping for the best for one another, this is what you fill your world with and whom you give your time and energy to.

Loosing friends? 

You are shifting, you are about to be awakened to the a world you have been trying to find, to live in that world though you must shed the former versions and that means loosing those people, you can keep the memories if you want but take the lessons you will have been given throughout and move into your new self, accept the new people with an open heart and allow yourself to grieve the old but bring in the new. 

Yours Truly,

H.x